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ARROWS PUB DATE!

January 26, 2016
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Date:
January 26, 2016
  • « Exclusive Pre-Sale Event
  • ARROWS Launch Party »

melissagorzela

Writer. Mystic. Meadow queen.
Frequency in human form 🥀
Sobriety essay coming Fall 2026🪞
All my links 🔗 ↓
📍GB, WI

Girl Dinner but make it Goddess 💐 Connecting with Girl Dinner but make it Goddess 💐 Connecting with creative, loving, powerful, badass women is the best medicine. Along with the feast they bring to the door! And the laughter. And Shea making his presence known to us all night. 💖

I hope you all feel this love reflected to you tonight 🫶🏻
Mantra lately 💋 #writersofinstagram #widowhood Mantra lately 💋

#writersofinstagram 
#widowhood 
#newlifewhodis 
#soberartist
“You do not have to be good. You do not have to wa “You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.“ -Mary Oliver

I love book parties and book people, and seeing old and new friends at book parties!🌹

@loomandlorebookmobile 
@gingerbirch
@toylady1 
@hannahindepth 
@graciedesigns
@gellingirl
Wisdom to Know the Difference 🪶 Accept what I can Wisdom to Know the Difference 🪶

Accept what I cannot change, and change what I can. So simple! 😂👀😫🙃

Thankfully, the meadow always receives me just as I am. Grieving, imperfect, abundant, alive.

#writersofinstagram 
#serenityprayer 
#healingjourney
#widowhood
#meadowqueen
My friends are brilliant! 🌟 Here’s proof! SIREN SA My friends are brilliant! 🌟 Here’s proof! SIREN SAYS by my favorite Scorpio, @jennifer_herrera_books. Out Tuesday, but we snuck this early. ✨😘🌶️

Jenny and I met at a writing retreat when we were paired as roomies. She showed me she was strong enough to walk on her hands, and we’ve been friends ever since.

I am so freakin proud of you, Queen! Thank you for trusting me as an early reader of your magical story—and for your gentle check-ins this year. 🥀 They mean more than you know.

💐Friends, treat yourself to this enchanting book!

#writersofinstagram 
#sirensays
#writerfriends 
#romanticfantasy
#booksaremagic
🌙 The Courage to Change the Things I Can ✨ My env 🌙 The Courage to Change the Things I Can

✨ My environment. I had to reclaim our home as Girl House. Lots of pink. Flowers. Crystals. Closets I took over. 🌗 I don’t want to forget that we created this life together, but I also don’t believe in causing myself mental harm.

✨ My internal narratives. Instead of “All the good men my age are already taken” I’m trying: “The second great love of my life is being worked on, just like me. What is meant for me will ALWAYS find me. I am worthy of love, connection, joy, and pleasure, with and without him.”

✨ My hair! It’s different than it was a year ago. During Shea’s daily chemo and radiation, I needed a hairstyle that would let me go longer between appointments, so I grew it out. It’s surprisingly empowering to make a small change during a big change.

If you’re looking to practice a little courage with change, I invite you to try a cool hairstyle switch. 

Sometimes changing something small reminds you that you can change everything.

Soooo who’s calling their stylist? 😂 (@hairbyamanda.brackett is my guru—ily, girl!)

#writersofinstagram #serenityprayer #widowhood #changeyourlife #soberlife
I love to rest. I love to relax. I love to receive I love to rest. I love to relax. I love to receive. I love to be spoiled. 🌹
How about you? 😘🙃 
Speak it!

#femininepower #writersofinstagram #duality #moonenergy #widowhood
Accept the Things I Cannot Change 🥀 🕯️Shea, my hu Accept the Things I Cannot Change 🥀

🕯️Shea, my husband and partner of 23 years, is gone
🕯️We were happy & still had that spark
🕯️We lost our old life in Nov. 2025 when he was diagnosed with brain cancer
🕯️We lost our next life as partners navigating crisis when he passed into the spirit realm May 1, 2026
🕯️Life is not fair
🕯️You can be taking excellent care of your body and still get terminal brain cancer
🕯️No one can tell you how to grieve (but they might try)
🕯️Grief is physical & requires more rest than expected
🕯️Acceptance helps

what are you accepting lately?

#healingjourney #widowhood #writersofinstagram #serenityprayer #creativeprocess
Sacred text: Women Who Run With the Wolves 🐺✨ I’m Sacred text: Women Who Run With the Wolves 🐺✨

I’m returning to three books this season that I consider sacred, that have woven me into the woman I am today. 

“To rejoin the instinctual nature does not mean to come undone.

It does not mean to change everything, to act crazy, or to be out of control.

It means quite the opposite.

The wild in nature has a vast integrity to it.

It means:

To establish territory.
To find one’s pack.
To be in one’s body with certainty and pride, regardless of the body’s gifts and limitations.
To speak and act on one’s own behalf.
To be aware.
To be alert.
To draw on the innate feminine powers of intuition and sensing.
To come into one’s cycles.
To find what one belongs to.
To rise with dignity.
To retain as much consciousness as we can.” -WWRWW

what are you reading lately?
My second @threethreefivegb concert, and I kept th My second @threethreefivegb concert, and I kept thinking, “Shea would have LOVED this.” 💔 But he is gone, and I’m here. 🥀
I’m grateful for the friends and family who walk beside me as I figure out how to live without him.

And big note to all the lovers out there: book your sweetheart tickets for the next 335 concert. Peak romance vibes! 

Or you can do what I do and date yourself/your friends. @jelday23 😘

B&W photos by @bloomphotobykara 🤍

I can’t believe that last photo was taken less than a year ago…
🌹UntitledTown Book and Author Fest is back, bb! 🌹 🌹UntitledTown Book and Author Fest is back, bb! 🌹 Sept. 25 - 27 in Green Bay, WI. 🔗 Link in bio to official site. @untitledtown 

I’m presenting Friday the 25th with the porch wizard dreamgirl herself, @amy_e_casey. 💐 And throughout the weekend—more to come. 

Save the dates and check out the amazing lineup ✨

Professional Bio

Melissa Gorzelanczyk is an award-winning novelist, writer, speaker, and sober artist who loves to inspire others to invest in their dreams and magic. Her first novel, ARROWS, was published by Penguin Random House. Her sobriety essay will appear in MAYBE LIFE HURTS, Cassandra Jane Press, September 2026. She holds an MFA in Writing from Vermont College of Fine Arts. A copywriter by day, she lives in her artist retreat home in Green Bay, Wisconsin.

Pronunciation: [gōr-zĕh-lŏn-chĕk]
Senior copywriter, novelist, lift queen, and mysti Senior copywriter, novelist, lift queen, and mystic, all in one day. ✨🫶🏻☕️
July letter, link in bio 🔗 🌓 a healing phrase fo July letter, link in bio 🔗 

🌓 a healing phrase for difficult realities
🌓 video: let me read you a poem
🌓 your card of the month: the destroyer

thank you for reading, ily ✨
“I am my own muse.” -Frida Kahlo #writersofinstag “I am my own muse.” -Frida Kahlo

#writersofinstagram #glowupjourney
“Don’t tell me the moon is shining; show me the gl “Don’t tell me the moon is shining; show me the glint of light on broken glass.” -Anton Chekhov

🌙 #writersofinstagram #writingtips
“Grief is a form of emotional alchemy. The loss of “Grief is a form of emotional alchemy. The loss of our closest people changes us. But we’re still… us. Grief has no timeline, no expiration date. And sad is not all you’ll ever be.” @noraborealis, The Hot Young Widows Club

THANK YOU, @blisterworldwide, for guiding me to this book. 💐✨ I wouldn’t wish this club on anyone, but here I am. (🔥🤓) As always, we need each other.
You have a right to your joy. 💋 You have a right to your joy. 💋
Bought myself more roses than I can count (in Fren Bought myself more roses than I can count (in French). 💐💐💐
Date with a bookstore 💐 #artistdate #theartistswa Date with a bookstore 💐

#artistdate #theartistsway
Fantastic investment one week of the year 💧🤓💐 ✨ Fantastic investment one week of the year 💧🤓💐 ✨
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